Life Lessons

Life Lessons1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s okay to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s okay to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.

41. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don’t ask, you don’t get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

 

Best Friends

Best Friends

10th grade
As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called “best friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick” she said; he’s not going to go well, I didn’t have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as “best friends”. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn’t think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said “I had the best time, thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, “you’re my best friend, thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say “I do” and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said “you came!”. She said “thanks” and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my “best friend”. At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn’t notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love him but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too…` I thought to my self, and I cried.

 

The Most Successful College Dropouts In History

There are two kinds of people. Those who think you need a college degree to succeed and those who know you don’t. All you really need is drive and determination.

Case in point:

Top 30 College Drop Outs Who Made It Big in Business
College Dropouts - Henry-Ford#1. Henry Ford (Ford)
Net Worth $199 Billion – Dropped out at 16.

Henry Ford dropped out at 16 and later founded Ford Motor Company in 1903. By 1908 he dropped the famous Model T and the assembly line, which has affected all of our lives, literally shaping the world. If he was still alive today, he’d be worth$199 Billion.

Bill Gates Headshot#2.Bill Gates (Microsoft)
Net Worth $78.8 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

Gates attended Harvard in the fall of 1973, only to drop out two years later to found Microsoft with childhood buddy Paul Allen. In 2007, he ended up receiving an honorary degree from Harvard.

Larry Ellison Headshot#3.Larry Ellison (Oracle)
Net Worth $56.6 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

Larry Ellison is a serial entrepreneur, programmer and philanthropist who made a good chunk of his billions via the multinational tech corp, Oracle. Oh yea, he also own an island in Hawaii named, “Larry Ellison Island.”

Amancio Ortega#4. Amancio Ortega (Zara)
Net Worth $66.2 Billion – Dropped out at 14.

At 27, Ortega founded his own company, producing quality yet affordable garments, and in 1975, he opened his first retail store, Zara.Ortega is now the richest man in Spain.

Zuckerberg-headshot#5.Mark Zuckerberg (Facebook)
Net Worth $33.7 Billion –Dropped out at 19.

Surely you’ve heard of Mark Zuckerberg. If not, he’s the guy who founded the second highest traffic website in the world, Facebook. Remember the hoodie he wore to all of his press conferences and public events?

li_ka_shing#6. Li Ka Shing (Cheung Kong Holdings)
Net Worth $33.5 Billion – Dropped out at 15.

Li Ka Shing said “deuces”to school at age 15 and started selling watch bands. Today he’s the world’s largest operator of container terminals, world’s largest health and beauty retailer, Chinese energy supplier and real estate developer.

Sheldon Adelson Headshot#7.Sheldon Adelson (Las Vegas Sands)
Net Worth $30.2 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

While you may not know his face, you may have partied at one of his Vegas establishments for your 21st. Aside from Sheldon Adelson being a casino tycoon, he also owns the Israeli Daily newspaper and dabbles in politics.

Larry Page#8. Larry Page (Google)
Net Worth $29.1 Billion – Dropped out at 21.

Larry page is known for co-founding a little site called Google. He technically graduated from University of Michigan but later dropped out of his PhD. program which why he’s on the list.

Mike-Dell#9. Michael Dell (Dell)
Net Worth $21.8 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

Michael Dell truly caught the entrepreneurial bug in college. Selling upgrade mods for personal computers from his dorm, ultimately led to him getting a license from the State of Texas to bid on(large) contracts. The rest is history.

Paul-Allen#10.Paul Allen (Microsoft)
Net Worth $17 Billion –Dropped out at 20.

This Microsoft co-founder is a sports fanatic, owning the Seattle Seahawks, and the NBA’s Portland Trailblazer’s. He’s known for having fun with his cash thanks to ridiculous toys ranging from submarines to 400ft yachts.

azim-premji#11. Azim Premji (Wipro)
Net Worth $16.4 Billion–Dropped out at 22.

Mr. Premji has been at the helm of Wilno Limited for four decades. In that time he’s grown them into one of the Indian leaders in the software industry.

Kerkorian Headshot#12.Kirk Kerkorian (Tracinda)
Net Worth $10 Billion – Dropped out at 12.

Kirk Kerkorian is known as the “father of the megaresort” and has helped develop, shape and grow Las Vegas.An 8th grade dropout, Kirk is a former boxer, WWII fighter pilot and CEO of the successful investment firm Tracinda.

steve jobs headshot#13. Steve Jobs (Apple)
Net Worth $8.3 Billion – Dropped out at 21.

Jobs dropped out of college after one semester and recycled cans and bottles to make ends meet. A vegetarian Buddhist who frequently experimented with LSD, Jobs has been hailed as the Ford and Edison of our Time.

Dustin Moskovitz headshot#14. Dustin Moskovitz (Facebook)
Net Worth $8.2 Billion – Dropped out at 21.

Forbes reported Moskovitz to be the youngest self-made billionaire in history. Zuckerberg’s roommate at Harvard and Facebook’s third employee, Dustin left Facebook in 2008 to start hist software firm Asana.

Leslie Wexner Headshot#15. Lex Wexner (L Brands)
Net Worth $7.7 Billion – Dropped out at 22.

Over the years Lex has built up some of the most famous brands in the world, including Abercrombie & Fitch, Lane Bryant, Limited Too and Express. Btw, he’s the shot caller aka current owner of Victoria Secret.

Jan Koum Headshot#16. Jan Koum (WhatsApp)
Net Worth $7.2 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

Koum made $6.8 billion when Facebook acquired his mobile messaging startup WhatsApp for $19 billion. He had originally dropped out of school to Yahoo, where he oversaw security and infrastructure for the internet giant.

Ralph Lauren Headshot#17. Ralph Lauren (Ralph Lauren)
Net Worth $7.1 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

This billionaire fashion mogul studied business for 2 years before dropping out. In 1967, after leaving his clerk position at Brooks Brothers, Lauren sold $500,000 worth of ties. He started Polo the next year.

David Geffen Headshot
#18. David Geffen (Geffen Records)
Net Worth $6.9 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

This guy founded Asylum Records and Geffen Records and co-founded DreamWorks. He also founded Hobby Lobby, a popular American chain of arts and crafts stores.

Walt Disney Headshot#19. Walt Disney (Disney)
Net Worth $5 billion (2015) – Dropped out at 16.

Walt Disney dropped out of at 16 and founded Walt Disney; a company which now has an annual revenue of about $30 billion. He’s regarded as the most influential animator ever.

David Green Headshot#20. David Green (Hobby Lobby)
Net Worth $4.7 Billion – Dropped out at 18.

Billionaire founder of Hobby Lobby, religious philanthropist. Did not attend college. Started the Hobby Lobby chain with a $600 loan.

richard-branson#21. Richard Branson (Virgin)
Net Worth $4.7 Billion – Dropped out at 16.

ironically he dropped out to start a youth magazine called “Student.” After he moved to London in the 60s, he developed a “mail-order” record company to fund his magazine, named Virgin. Branson’s empire includes an airline, drinks manufacturer and over 400 other ventures.

Elizabeth Holmes Headshot#22. Elizabeth Holmes (Theranos)
Net Worth $4.5 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

At 30, Elizabeth Holmes makes her debut on the Forbes 400 as the youngest self-made woman billionaire.

Chandra Headshot#23. Subhash Chandra Goel (Zee Tv)
Net Worth $4 Billion – Dropped out at 12.

Dr Chandra who is referred to as the Media Moghul of India, changed the television industry by launching the country’s first satellite Hindi channel in 1992. The Zee Network now has over 500 million viewers in 167 countries.

haim#24. Haim Saban (Saban Capital)
Net Worth $3.3 Billion – Dropped out at 13.

Saban made it big as the producer of the Mighty Morphin Power Rangers TV show in the early 90s. And later sold Fox Family to Disney for $5 Billion and made $1.7 Billion on the deal.

Sean Parker Headshot#25. Sean Parker (Facebook)
Net Worth $3 Billion – Dropped out at 14.

He’s the co-founder of the infamous music sharing service Napster, which changed the music industry forever. He later served as Facebook’s first president owning 28.2% of B shares.

Evan Williams#26. Evan Williams (Twitter)
Net Worth $2.9 Billion – Dropped out at 19.

Williams is one of the co-founders of Twitter and the founder of Square, and before each of the aforementioned companies he co-founded the successful podcasting company Odeo.

Jack Dorsey Headshot#27. Jack Dorsey (Twitter)
Net Worth $2.5 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

Dorsey, who is now on the board of Disney, is one of the founding members of Twitter, and founder and CEO of Square. He’s often referred to as the “cool” guy in tech.

Yamaouchi#28. Hiroshi Yamauchi (Nintendo)
Net Worth $2.1 Billion – Dropped out at 22.

Yamauchi dropped out to take over the company his grandfather started in 1889, maintaining his role as the third president of Nintendo for 55 years, taking them from small card company to video game powerhouse.

Gabe Newell Headshot#29. Gabe Newell (Valve)
Net Worth $1.3 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

Newell co-founded Valve Corporation, a company famous for the sci-fi video game, Half Life. Newell claims to be“producer of the first three releases of Windows.” Like Zuckerberg and Gates, he was also a Harvard dropout.

Orji Uzor Kalu Headshot#30. Orji Uzor Kalu (Slok)
Net Worth $1 Billion – Dropped out at 20.

The Nigerian born billionaire and war survivor, made his billions in television and media after being expelled from University for leading student riots and taking a $35 loan from his mother.

 
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How To Succeed In College

How to succeed in college by Leah Jackman-Wheitner. This is so logical… great idea!

How to succeed in college:

How to succeed in college: If you only do one thing, do Hint #5.

I got a D on my first exam in college. It was 4 weeks or so into a Philosophy Honors class. We’d spent weeks on Mill, Locke and Hume. Then we spent one day on Buddhism. I prepped for this test. I knew we had 2 exams and a final that would be our entire grade (no assignments, no participation grade.)

We’d had 4 weeks of class. I knew we were having an essay test with two questions. So, I studied Mill, Locke, and Hume inside and out. I was ready. I skimmed over Buddhism, because we’d only spent about an hour on it. It couldn’t be much of the test, right? Wrong.

There were two questions. One on Mill, Locke, and Hume. The other on Buddhism. I wrote 5 pages on the first answer and 3 sentences on the second.

And I learned a huge lesson in how different college is from high school.

I knew when I walked out that I’d screwed it up bad. I could have spent the next weeks complaining about how it was an unfair test, or I could do what I did – suck it up, learn something from the experience, and bust my *** to make As on the other exams to balance out the first one.

It would have been easy to just spend my time complaining about the exam. And, of course, I did complain some. But it’s a metaphor for life. When things happen, will you blame external forces or take responsibility for yourself and step up to improve what you can?
Here’s my best list of what to do to succeed in college:

1. Go to class. Regardless of whether the prof says you have to be there every day, just go. You will learn so much more by being in the actual classroom. It’s a good habit. It’s a good mindset to have for all classes.

2. First day of every class, get two people’s phone numbers. You will have questions over something at some point in the class. Get contact info for two people so you can compare your memory of what was said.

3. Take notes in class by hand. Yes, I know the excuses – I’ll just type them then I’ll be able to read them better. I learn better when I just listen.

I’m telling you – write notes, by hand, during class, with your phone in your pocket on silent. That’s how our brains encode information most effectively. There’s research about it.

4. Now – if you really want to get good grades, I’m going to tell you the best thing to do. It’s time consuming. It does require commitment, but it helps like nothing else I know.

Rewrite your notes.
Yes. I know you’re busy. But you have to decide if you want to be successful or not. After class or the next day, rewrite your notes. You can outline the info, highlight, note what page number the topic is covered on, make a list of questions.

I write notes by taking notes on the left column of a piece of paper. At the top of the right column, I write down things I need to follow up on, upcoming test dates, questions I need to ask the prof later, reminders to myself that I need to go back and look something up in the text, etc. When the left column is full, I take additional notes starting about halfway down in the right column. (I’ll post a pic later.)

5. Next thing – this is huge. Actually, even if you ignore all my other advice and only do this, you’d probably be ok.

College is your job. Your job is to be a student. It is a full-time job.

So, you do it 40 hr/wk.

If you’re in class for 15 hr of class time, then you study for 25 hrs a week.

If you have 16 hrs of class time, you study for 24 hrs each week.

If you want to have every weekend and evening free, then you spend 8 am – 5 pm every day studying.

If you have 3 hours in between classes, find a quiet place, sit, review your notes, rewrite your notes, study, read the reading for the next class session while the topic is fresh in your mind.

If you start your college career doing this, you’ll get a good habit going and you’ll be better able to gauge the amount of time you need to study in the future.

6. Go see each professor during office hours. Once a week, go see a professor. Get to know them as individuals. I did my undergraduate degree at a school with 26,000 students. It works in big schools as well as small schools. Professors want to know you care about their class.

You will have a much better experience in the class if you go talk to the prof. Just say, “Hi, I’m in your Chem 100, and I wanted to introduce myself.” Go up to them after class. Go to their office during office hours.

If they know you are making an effort to connect with them, then they’ll start looking at you during lecture and trying to see if you get it or not. If you get that scrunched-up, confused look on your face, they’ll notice. They’ll either explain again right then or they’ll know that you’re going to come talk to them after class.

This is your education. Make the most of it. Get to know your profs, then it’s so much easier to go talk to them when you get stuck.

7. Do the reading before the class. I know you can usually get away without doing this. I know you have never read before the class. But seriously, if you want to be successful in life, you have to do things you haven’t done before. That includes reading the material before class. Profs don’t want to just teach the material in the reading. They want to have interesting discussions about the material. Remember, they have made an entire career out of imparting knowledge, helping people learn to think, and creating knowledge in their field through research They love what they do. They love when students participate and want to learn. You may not care about that particular class, but if you show some interest, it becomes much more interesting. If you do the reading in advance and ask meaningful, relevant questions, your professors will appreciate you and will go out of their way to make sure you’re understanding the course.

In sum:
– You are a student. That is your job. Spend 40 hours a week on your classes, and you’ll have time for fun.
– Do the reading. Go to class. Talk to your professors. Ask them questions.
– Take responsibility for your life and your education.

How To Succeed In College

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The Gold Wrapping Paper

Gold Wrapping PaperOnce upon a time, there was a man who worked very hard just to keep food on the table for his family. This particular year a few days before Christmas, he punished his little five-year-old daughter after learning that she had used up the family’s only roll of expensive gold wrapping paper.

As money was tight, he became even more upset when on Christmas Eve he saw that the child had used all of the expensive gold paper to decorate one shoebox she had put under the Christmas tree. He also was concerned about where she had gotten money to buy what was in the shoebox.

Nevertheless, the next morning the little girl, filled with excitement, brought the gift box to her father and said, “This is for you, Daddy!”

As he opened the box, the father was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, now regretting how he had punished her.

But when he opened the shoebox, he found it was empty and again his anger flared. “Don’t you know, young lady,” he said harshly, “when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside the package!”

The little girl looked up at him with sad tears rolling from her eyes and whispered: “Daddy, it’s not empty. I blew kisses into it until it was all full.”

The father was crushed. He fell on his knees and put his arms around his precious little girl. He begged her to forgive him for his unnecessary anger.

An accident took the life of the child only a short time later. It is told that the father kept this little gold box by his bed for all the years of his life. Whenever he was discouraged or faced difficult problems, he would open the box, take out an imaginary kiss, and remember the love of this beautiful child who had put it there.

 

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