Random Riddle: Introspection

My first to third, the adult female supports
My second to fifth, a dry spell aptly thwarts

My third plus three, a negative condition
My fourth plus one, a common preposition

My fifth and sixth, a computer family
My sixth and next two, a drink for you and me

My seventh to tenth, means from toil you are free
My eighth and ninth, used to compare A and B

My ninth and next, joined with “per”, means by itself
My last two, a pause when expressing oneself

What am I?
 

Random Riddle: Introspection